We\u2019ve all likely felt both ends of that spectrum: a job where co-workers became friends and even family\u2014and the unfortunate situation where relationships with co-workers were challenging and made the work environment less than satisfying. Like with any relationship, success or failure of the connection between co-workers may largely come down to one thing: communication.<\/p>\n
Whether you\u2019re looking to turn around a struggling relationship with a colleague or just want to build on an already strong foundation with another co-worker, here are a few tips to make the most of your workplace relationships:<\/p>\n
Simple, straightforward communication is often the key to effective relationships. Communication can get muddied when we try to talk around a problem or avoid directness. Instead, opt for transparency to keep confusion or misunderstanding out of the conversation.<\/p>\n
In today\u2019s digital age, your colleagues may all prefer different communication methods: face-to-face, on the phone, virtual calls, emails or even texts. Get to know what avenue your co-workers gravitate toward and then lean into that. Co-worker relationships can be built more smoothly when each person is communicating how they\u2019re most comfortable.<\/p>\n
Given that today\u2019s workers communicate in person, online and everywhere in between, it\u2019s important to remember that there are distinct differences in those forms of communication. For instance, in person or on a video call, you may be able to read your co-workers\u2019 non-verbal cues to understand their feelings better, which isn\u2019t possible in written communication. Given that, work to avoid making assumptions about a co-worker\u2019s emotions or intentions, especially when you\u2019re not communicating face-to-face.<\/p>\n
For communication to actually be effective, both people need to be truly <\/em>listening to one another. That means considering the other\u2019s point of view without judgment\u2014and not just waiting for one\u2019s turn to speak!<\/p>\n Even though co-workers may just be communicating about work matters, doing so requires high levels of cooperation and collaboration, and the ability to be creative and consider each other\u2019s viewpoints\u2014and that requires a lot of empathy! Central to effective co-worker communication is a willingness to put yourself in your colleagues\u2019 shoes, to see where they\u2019re coming from and what\u2019s informing their unique vantage point\u2014and that may mean working hard to keep your own frustrations at bay. Doing so, while a challenge, can ensure that the lines of communication stay open, and that you and your co-workers create relationships that are productive\u2014and enjoyable!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" No matter what industry, employer or role you\u2019re in, one thing is universal: Your relationships with your co-workers can make or break your employee experience. We\u2019ve all likely felt both ends of that spectrum: a job where co-workers became friends and even family\u2014and the unfortunate situation where relationships with co-workers were challenging and made the…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":15755,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6,19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11562","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-work-life"],"yoast_head":"\nBring empathy, not emotions<\/h2>\n